The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it. Proverbs 10:22 KJV
I believe if something is from God and he wants you to truly have it, it won’t make you sad. Why hold on to something or someone that brings you more sorrow than Joy? You can’t claim, ‘Oh, God blessed me with a man/ woman’ and yet you are always sad with him or her. That’s ridiculous!! The BLESSING of the LORD addeth NO sorrow!!!
If its bringing you pain, let it go!!! Free yourself like a gazelle!!